Many of you have probably felt hopeless after declaring your love to someone you admire and getting their rejection.Immediately after being rejected, it is easy to be in shock and not be able to do anything.
We’ll outline seven steps you should take after declaring your love and receiving a negative response in this article.
Sort out your feelings.
In order to think about what you should do after being rejected, it is important to sort out your feelings about whether you should give up on the person or not, and whether you should continue to approach the person without giving up. If you give up on the person, you need to look for new encounters. If you do not give up on the person, you need to think about how you can make him or her change his or her mind. If you feel depressed all the time after being rejected, you will not be able to move on to the next step. In order to decide what to do in the future, you should first sort out your feelings.
Return to a relationship of friends without severing ties.
It is preferable to return to the relationship as friends without severing ties with the person who dumped you. Many people are so shocked at being dumped that they cut off the relationship, saying they no longer want to be involved, but this may destroy the relationship with the friends around you.
It is more important to resume the friendship relationship if you cannot give up on the person. After being dumped, it is awkward and difficult to talk to them, but you should try to find the courage to talk to them yourself.
Think about the reasons why you were rejected.
There are many possible reasons for rejection, such as “I wasn’t the type of person the other person liked” or “I wasn’t interested in a relationship,” but when you are rejected after confessing your feelings, think about why you were rejected. If there are problems with yourself, such as appearance or personality, you can improve the areas you can fix. It is important to think about the reasons why you were rejected, as it will serve as an indicator for how you should act in the future.
Be optimistic
- Consciously say positive words.
- Do not compare yourself with others.
- Act with people you enjoy being with
Many people are so shocked by the rejection that they cannot recover and take any action. Be positive to look back at the person you love.The other person and your friends will be less willing to talk to you if you appear depressed and continue to be in a negative mindset. It is important to have a positive attitude to get back on your feet quickly and move on to the next activity.
Do what you want to do
To recover quickly from the shock of being dumped, do whatever you want, such as watching movies or playing sports. Enjoying your favorite activities to the fullest will distract you, and you may even find new people to meet through hobbies or sports.
Step away from your love life
If you are having a hard time recovering from the rejection, it is important to step away from the relationship. By immersing yourself in your work, studies, or hobbies, you can shake off the painful feelings of being dumped. By taking a break from love, you may learn something new about what you did wrong, so if you are feeling a lot of pain, taking a break from love is one way to deal with it.
Find a new person to meet
If you have made up your mind to give up on the person you confessed your love to, then find a new person to meet. As you look for new encounters, you will naturally forget the sadness of your lost love. Dating apps are a great way to find someone new because you can easily find someone who matches your personality and has common interests.
NG behavior after confessing and being rejected
Forcing someone to go out with you
It is good to have a feeling of not giving up even after confessing and being rejected.
However, forcing someone to go out with you by saying, “Please be my girlfriend,” is counterproductive and will cause the other person to lose liking for you.
Even if you repeatedly confess your feelings immediately after being rejected, it is unlikely that the other person’s response will change. Leave it a day and confess again when you feel that the other person’s feelings are toward you.
Ignore the other person
Many people are so shocked by the rejection that they ignore the other person when he or she talks to them. Ignoring the other person causes people around you to wonder why you are ignoring them, and this can make your impression of them worse, so don’t do it.
If you want to build a good relationship with someone after you have been rejected, it is important to be aware that you should not ignore them, but rather engage in normal conversation with them as usual.
Ask persistently why you were rejected
Asking persistently about the reason after being rejected can also lower the other party’s favorable impression of you. It is understandable that you want to know the reason why you were rejected, but you should avoid asking persistently.
First of all, think objectively about the reason why you were rejected yourself. By thinking for yourself, it is easier to reflect on the situation in the future.
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