Why don’t Japanese man ask you out on dates

You’ve recently gotten a good feeling with the Japanese guy you like…… The next step that women can’t wait to see is for Japanese men to ask them out on a date. But is there anyone out there who is having trouble getting their partner to ask them out? In this article, we will introduce the reasons why Japanese men do not propose dates, their psychology, and countermeasures.

Psychology of Japanese men who don’t ask you out on dates— There are many women who find it difficult to understand why Japanese men don’t ask their partners out on dates, even though they have become good friends. In fact, there are various reasons for this. Lets take a look at some of the reasons for this, based on your partner’s personality and the situation you are in.

Fear of rejection

Once you become a couple, it is easy to ask a woman out on a date because you are lovers. However, even if you know you have mutual love, it takes a lot of courage to ask someone out during the sensitive stage of a relationship before you start dating.Maybe, he has only a doubt and fear  between wanting to ask you out so badly and feeling sorry if he is rejected. This is true for Japanese men especially those who are very shy. It is necessary to wait and see what happens. 

He does not like going out very much

If he is an indoor person by nature,introverted person, he may not think much of going out with women. If you have not yet become lovers, it is difficult to invite him to your home, so most of the time you two are spending together, will be at school or work. Since spending time at home has become a pattern, this Japanese man is not likely to ask you out much until he has some major opportunity to do so.

Not good at planning dates

If you meet a Japanese man who does not have much experience in dating, the inability to make a plan may prevent him from asking you out on a date. He is maybe searching for the right place to take you and what to do to make you happy, or perhaps he is in the middle of research about you and your interests.

Busy and tired

Some Japanese men are too busy with various things to ask for a date. If he is busy with work or study, he may want to focus on those things. It would be nice if they would think about going somewhere together when they want to take a relax.

“I don’t think our relationship is there yet.”

Japanese men who take their relationship slowly may think that the relationship has not yet reached the point where they are willing to date. It does not mean that he does not like you, by any means, so do not worry.He just wants to get to know you better, so he still wants to spend time chatting and relaxing in the neighborhood. If you see what he is doing and there are no other women that he seems to be interested in, then you should aim to be more intimate with him first.

Now, we will learn how to deal with Japanese men who do not ask you out. Make your dream situation of being asked out on a date by your favorite Japanese guy come true! I will teach you how to deal with the situation so that a Japanese man will naturally want to propose a date to you and be attracted to you easily. If you continue to take the right steps, he will want to go out with you to various places.

Be interested in his hobbies and likes

Find out more about his hobbies and favorite things. If you tell him about spots related to his hobbies and likes, you will surely get a response of “I want to go there! And eventually, you will get a response of “I want to go there! You are the one who introduced me to him!The Japanese man will thank you for spending an enjoyable time with him, and he will also feel more favorable toward you. Please be healed by seeing his increased tension.

Show favoritism and fun

Show him that you are really serious about him and that you really love spending time with him. Tell him that you want to talk to him more and that you are sad to leave him, and he will think of ways to keep spending time with you. He will then come up with a date that allows you to be face to face without worrying about time. When he asks you out, give him a heartfelt “Thank you!” for taking your feelings into consideration, and please return the favor. He will be glad you suggested it.

Casually broach the topic of where you want to go

Tell him more about the hot spot or the restaurant your friend recommended. Then ask, “What is it like?” Have you been there?” and ask your partner for a reply.Seeing your curiosity, the Japanese man will be more inclined to take you there. After he asks you out, the two of you should work together to gather information for the date. You will get to know each other even better.

He says he has some advice for you

One way to do this is to ask him for advice. If you say, “This is going to be a bit long, what should I do?” he may ask you out for tea or dinner. Don’t make it like formal and professional consultation, but say that you would like to hear what he is good at and what he specializes in.This is a little different from a love date where you go somewhere special, but the fact that the two of you went out somewhere together is important first. It will look like a great date to those around you. If you can keep the conversation going after the consultation, it will be easier for him to ask you out on a proper date.

Put effort into improving yourself

To become the kind of woman that he will want to ask out on a date right away, work hard on improving yourself. Put effort into researching fashion and makeup, and show him how you are becoming more and more sophisticated. Japanese men will be even more attracted to you. At the same time, you may feel nervous that someone else will take you away from him. He will want to get to know you better and ask you out on a date.Also, if he sees you working hard at your job or studying, he will want to reward you in a fun way as a way of saying “thank you” for your hard work. It’s two birds with one stone way to become a sparkling woman while increasing his desire to ask you out on a date!